As the Pine City LGBT community meets for a picnic today, several residents opposed to homosexuality will meet to protest what they see as an “incorrect” lifestyle according to the Star Tribune. The LGBT picnic is in its third year, and is hosted by the East Central Men’s Circle, a support network for LGBT people in central Minnesota from Duluth to Isanti. The first two picnics went over without any hassle, but this year Pine City resident Patrice DeGray is organizing a picnic in opposition to the “appalling boldness and brazenness of this well-organized, radical fringe of the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning community.”
One of the LGBT picnic organizers, Gary Skarsten, told the Star Tribune that one purpose of the picnic is to connect with the larger Pine City community. “We pay our taxes, we’re regular citizens and we’re proud of the fact that we can meet together and talk about mutual problems. And we want to reach out and let the community know they have nothing to be afraid of from gay and bisexual men.”
DeGray, a Republican party activist who has been very outspoken against same-sex relationships, said that her picnic will be one “that allows those who believe in the God-ordained, time-tested, healthier alternative lifestyle of marriage between one man and one woman an opportunity to celebrate their uniqueness and unity around old-fashioned, traditional family values.”
She told the Pine City Pioneer, “This is a huge, well-funded, well-organized movement that is not localized to Pine City. The GLBT movement has the ability and is using that ability to indoctrinate our children and grandchildren in our public school systems all over the United States….
“Sexual topics, methods and practices are discussed (in schools) in a way that would make most of us over 45 blush or vomit. What does that mean for the next generation?”
Picnic organizers had advertized the event as the world’s only rural LGBT pride event. That advertizing upset DeGray. “Does the Pine City community truly want to be known as the ’smallest city in the world with a gay pride event?” she said.
The LGBT picnic organizers said the event is not “anti-family” as DeGray insinuated. Don Quaintance of the Men’s Circle told the Pioneer, “All it (the pro-family picnic) proves is that we, in the GLBT community, need to keep educating people about who we are. We are your next door neighbor. Zeroing in on the words, ‘pro-family’ make us look like we’re not, and that promotes hate. We want to counter that.”
“We want kids. We want marriage equality…. It’s a different kind of family the churches talk about, the mom, dad and kids nuclear family. That doesn’t happen in many cases today…. They are promoting something that doesn’t exist in many cases,” Quaintance said.













16 Comments »
Comment posted June 2, 2007 @ 6:05 pm
Will the local democrats support this picnic I get it, the Republicans are evil. What have the democrats done except use Gays as ATMs, then throw gays under the bus when push comes to shove.
Comment posted June 2, 2007 @ 7:04 pm
I dunno I’m not trying to paint all Republicans as anti-gay or make a point that all DFLers are awesome. I found the two publicly available documents that establish DeGray’s authority and public life.
Is it a coincidence the DeGray is a Republican? Or that the MN GOP actively courts the anti-gay fundamentalist vote?
I know it stings when good Republicans try to change the party for the better, and people like DeGray continue their shinanigans making the entire party look anti-gay.
If this was a DFL activist saying these things, I’d certainly point that out too. But it’s pretty rare for anyone with the DFL label to engage in this kind of rhetoric. Unfortunately for the GOP, it’s fairly common.
The DFL could do more, I don’t dispute that.
Comment posted June 3, 2007 @ 7:43 pm
Fooling no one. “And we want to reach out and let the community know they have nothing to be afraid of from gay and bisexual men.”
That is, so long as you don’t mind tripping over them having off in the bushes while you walk you dog or play with your kids.
Comment posted June 3, 2007 @ 7:59 pm
So Are you saying that 16 closeted men in a park are justification for discriminating against tens of thousands of LGBT people?
That I should be vilified for the actions of a few?
That is what is truly disgusting. Rhetoric like that is the heart of all racism, sexism, and homophobia.
Comment posted June 4, 2007 @ 2:41 pm
hey, disgusted Of the 16 men you tripped over in the park, most likely 10 of them had wives and kids at home. Don’t for a moment think that you have the monopoly on healthy family values. The people who attended the Pine City event are living in the sunlight. Your written thoughts, on the other hand, come straight (so to speak) from the gutter.
Comment posted June 5, 2007 @ 10:15 pm
Pine City Pride As one of the organizers of the event we were very happy with the significant level of support from all people, straight or gay. The head of the Pine County Republicans even spent a significant amount of time with us. I have Republican friends that support me. And of course, my family was there (Mom and sis). This is a community event. We had well over 200 people (double last year and quadruple the first year).
That is not to say that we did not have slurs shouted from cars driving by (at high speed). It’s always scary to hear “Die Faggots!” We did feel a bit nervous about this year’s event because of the Patrice DeGray issue (Organizer of the “family value” picnic). We felt she brought unnecessary attention and hate to our event.
We also had Exodus (a group that believes they can convert us gays to straights with prayer and education) set up a booth/Tent right at our event…20 feet away from our stage. We also had people walking through our picnic asking us if we’ve talked to the “Lord” lately. But, you know we also gave Exodus 1 minute during “open microphone” at our picnic. They said that they were praying for us. Then, they took the time to write down license plate #’s of all the cars in the parking lot. Scary!
See, we need these events to keep educating people about who we are. Someday we won’t live in fear!
Comment posted June 5, 2007 @ 10:21 pm
Forcing us to live in the shadows There are elements of all groups that we’re not proud of.
The married men busted in the bushes having sex with other men are forced there by society. Do you think they want to be there? They have to hide in the shadows and be ashamed of who they are and what they desire. Accept them and the sex will return to the bedroom…or kitchen…or some other room in the house.
And stop walking your dog in the bushes!
Comment posted June 5, 2007 @ 10:24 pm
Living in the sunlight Thanks for that comment…we are living in the sunlight. While people try to hurt us, we have the courage to stand up and be proud.
Comment posted June 2, 2007 @ 1:05 pm
Will the local democrats support this picnic I get it, the Republicans are evil. What have the democrats done except use Gays as ATMs, then throw gays under the bus when push comes to shove.
Comment posted June 2, 2007 @ 2:04 pm
I dunno I'm not trying to paint all Republicans as anti-gay or make a point that all DFLers are awesome. I found the two publicly available documents that establish DeGray's authority and public life.
Is it a coincidence the DeGray is a Republican? Or that the MN GOP actively courts the anti-gay fundamentalist vote?
I know it stings when good Republicans try to change the party for the better, and people like DeGray continue their shinanigans making the entire party look anti-gay.
If this was a DFL activist saying these things, I'd certainly point that out too. But it's pretty rare for anyone with the DFL label to engage in this kind of rhetoric. Unfortunately for the GOP, it's fairly common.
The DFL could do more, I don't dispute that.
Comment posted June 3, 2007 @ 2:43 pm
Fooling no one. “And we want to reach out and let the community know they have nothing to be afraid of from gay and bisexual men.”
That is, so long as you don't mind tripping over them having off in the bushes while you walk you dog or play with your kids.
Comment posted June 3, 2007 @ 2:59 pm
So Are you saying that 16 closeted men in a park are justification for discriminating against tens of thousands of LGBT people?
That I should be vilified for the actions of a few?
That is what is truly disgusting. Rhetoric like that is the heart of all racism, sexism, and homophobia.
Comment posted June 4, 2007 @ 9:41 am
hey, disgusted Of the 16 men you tripped over in the park, most likely 10 of them had wives and kids at home. Don't for a moment think that you have the monopoly on healthy family values. The people who attended the Pine City event are living in the sunlight. Your written thoughts, on the other hand, come straight (so to speak) from the gutter.
Comment posted June 5, 2007 @ 5:15 pm
Pine City Pride As one of the organizers of the event we were very happy with the significant level of support from all people, straight or gay. The head of the Pine County Republicans even spent a significant amount of time with us. I have Republican friends that support me. And of course, my family was there (Mom and sis). This is a community event. We had well over 200 people (double last year and quadruple the first year).
That is not to say that we did not have slurs shouted from cars driving by (at high speed). It's always scary to hear “Die Faggots!” We did feel a bit nervous about this year's event because of the Patrice DeGray issue (Organizer of the “family value” picnic). We felt she brought unnecessary attention and hate to our event.
We also had Exodus (a group that believes they can convert us gays to straights with prayer and education) set up a booth/Tent right at our event…20 feet away from our stage. We also had people walking through our picnic asking us if we've talked to the “Lord” lately. But, you know we also gave Exodus 1 minute during “open microphone” at our picnic. They said that they were praying for us. Then, they took the time to write down license plate #'s of all the cars in the parking lot. Scary!
See, we need these events to keep educating people about who we are. Someday we won't live in fear!
Comment posted June 5, 2007 @ 5:21 pm
Forcing us to live in the shadows There are elements of all groups that we're not proud of.
The married men busted in the bushes having sex with other men are forced there by society. Do you think they want to be there? They have to hide in the shadows and be ashamed of who they are and what they desire. Accept them and the sex will return to the bedroom…or kitchen…or some other room in the house.
And stop walking your dog in the bushes!
Comment posted June 5, 2007 @ 5:24 pm
Living in the sunlight Thanks for that comment…we are living in the sunlight. While people try to hurt us, we have the courage to stand up and be proud.
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