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		<title>By: MBerg</title>
		<link>http://minnesotaindependent.com/2062/is-the-pro-family-party-leading-by-example/comment-page-1#comment-7096</link>
		<dc:creator>MBerg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jul 2007 14:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Um, yeah.&lt;/strong&gt; Wow - Eva Young calling me a traffic troll!&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Trolling for traffic&quot; here would be marginally more effective than trolling at Lloydletta. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;And I am on the subject, Eva.&#160; Read it again.&#160; Or read it for the first time, if your usual performance is any indication.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Um, yeah.</strong> Wow &#8211; Eva Young calling me a traffic troll!
<p>&#8220;Trolling for traffic&#8221; here would be marginally more effective than trolling at Lloydletta. </p>
<p>And I am on the subject, Eva.&nbsp; Read it again.&nbsp; Or read it for the first time, if your usual performance is any indication.</p>
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		<title>By: lloydletta2</title>
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		<dc:creator>lloydletta2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jul 2007 23:34:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mitch Berg must be trolling for traffic&lt;/strong&gt; His post doesn&#039;t address the issue at hand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mitch Berg must be trolling for traffic</strong> His post doesn&#39;t address the issue at hand.</p>
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		<title>By: lloydletta2</title>
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		<dc:creator>lloydletta2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jul 2007 23:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Actually Bill Clinton Advertised as a Family Values Candidate in 96&lt;/strong&gt; All while acting differently.&#160; He had ads on christian radio talking about signing DOMA.&#160; Harold Ford - D, Tennesee - also bragged about his family values - and Harold Ford is known as a &quot;casanova&quot;.&#160; &lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Contrast the Clintons with the Cheney family values.&#160; The Cheney&#039;s are loyal to their kids - and their kids are loyal to their parents.&#160; You might disagree with Dick Cheney on his politics, but you got to admire him for sticking up for his daughter.&#160; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;I like it when we are finally pointing out how many straight people are hypocritical on this - rather than outing Republican gay people.&#160;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Actually Bill Clinton Advertised as a Family Values Candidate in 96</strong> All while acting differently.&nbsp; He had ads on christian radio talking about signing DOMA.&nbsp; Harold Ford &#8211; D, Tennesee &#8211; also bragged about his family values &#8211; and Harold Ford is known as a &#8220;casanova&#8221;.&nbsp;
<p>Contrast the Clintons with the Cheney family values.&nbsp; The Cheney&#39;s are loyal to their kids &#8211; and their kids are loyal to their parents.&nbsp; You might disagree with Dick Cheney on his politics, but you got to admire him for sticking up for his daughter.&nbsp; </p>
<p>I like it when we are finally pointing out how many straight people are hypocritical on this &#8211; rather than outing Republican gay people.&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>By: Andy Birkey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy Birkey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jul 2007 17:47:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;What do you define &quot;private romantic lives&quot;?&lt;/strong&gt; I&#039;m going to hold my partners hand in public. Live with it.&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;We&#039;re going to hug, and maybe even plant a kiss on the cheek now and then. Live with it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;If we decide to have a commitment ceremony, we&#039;ll have it at a place of our choosing. Live with it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;If those actions get stuck under your nose. Live with it.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What do you define &#8220;private romantic lives&#8221;?</strong> I&#39;m going to hold my partners hand in public. Live with it.
<p>We&#39;re going to hug, and maybe even plant a kiss on the cheek now and then. Live with it.</p>
<p>If we decide to have a commitment ceremony, we&#39;ll have it at a place of our choosing. Live with it.</p>
<p>If those actions get stuck under your nose. Live with it.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy Birkey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy Birkey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jul 2007 17:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Not Perfection&lt;/strong&gt; I haven&#039;t written that perfection should be the standard. Just that it makes little sense to say that I&#039;m incapable of having something (state-sanctioned benefits of being in a committed relationship) because I&#039;m somehow &quot;immoral.&quot; And at the same time, divorcing without even acknowledging that THAT is the behavior that undermines marriage.&#160; &lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;And you are right, Mitch. I erred in using a blanket statement about the entire party. I appreciate your feedback in will incorporate it into future columns. Not every member of the Republican Party is a serial spouse. Or violent toward their spouse. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;logically void&quot;? No. Imperfect? Yes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Of course, there have been many more prominent Republicans with &quot;moral failings&quot; who have called same-sex relationships a &quot;moral failing,&quot; among other condemnations of people who don&#039;t fit their worldview. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dkosopedia.com/wiki/Examples_of_Republican_hypocrisy_on_moral_values&quot;&gt;Here&#039;s a list of 110 or so.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s not all Republicans, but it is some. I don&#039;t want, or haven&#039;t asked for all socially conservative Republicans to stuff it. It&#039;s that we should pay attention to what they say vs. what they do. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;And I do appreciate your stance on the issue, Mitch, BTW.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Not Perfection</strong> I haven&#39;t written that perfection should be the standard. Just that it makes little sense to say that I&#39;m incapable of having something (state-sanctioned benefits of being in a committed relationship) because I&#39;m somehow &#8220;immoral.&#8221; And at the same time, divorcing without even acknowledging that THAT is the behavior that undermines marriage.&nbsp;
<p>And you are right, Mitch. I erred in using a blanket statement about the entire party. I appreciate your feedback in will incorporate it into future columns. Not every member of the Republican Party is a serial spouse. Or violent toward their spouse. </p>
<p>&#8220;logically void&#8221;? No. Imperfect? Yes.</p>
<p>Of course, there have been many more prominent Republicans with &#8220;moral failings&#8221; who have called same-sex relationships a &#8220;moral failing,&#8221; among other condemnations of people who don&#39;t fit their worldview. <a href="http://www.dkosopedia.com/wiki/Examples_of_Republican_hypocrisy_on_moral_values">Here&#39;s a list of 110 or so.</a> </p>
<p>It&#39;s not all Republicans, but it is some. I don&#39;t want, or haven&#39;t asked for all socially conservative Republicans to stuff it. It&#39;s that we should pay attention to what they say vs. what they do. </p>
<p>And I do appreciate your stance on the issue, Mitch, BTW.</p>
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		<title>By: Shelty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shelty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jul 2007 11:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;The discussion we need to have&lt;/strong&gt; Is why some people find it necessary to drag their &quot;private romantic lives&quot; out in public and stick it uder every one else&#039;s noses. Especially when those &quot;private romantic lives&quot; include acts that the majority of decent people find, um, repugnant.&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Those &quot;rigid traditional standards&quot; were laid down by nature...live with it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;I&#039;m talking about: &quot;that we should be suspicious when politicians try to legislate rigid traditional standards on people&#039;s private romantic lives,&quot;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The discussion we need to have</strong> Is why some people find it necessary to drag their &#8220;private romantic lives&#8221; out in public and stick it uder every one else&#39;s noses. Especially when those &#8220;private romantic lives&#8221; include acts that the majority of decent people find, um, repugnant.
<p>Those &#8220;rigid traditional standards&#8221; were laid down by nature&#8230;live with it.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#39;m talking about: &#8220;that we should be suspicious when politicians try to legislate rigid traditional standards on people&#39;s private romantic lives,&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: MBerg</title>
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		<dc:creator>MBerg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jul 2007 11:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;So Since Perfection Is The Standard...&lt;/strong&gt; ...you&#039;re set, Andy - because remember, you&#039;re impugning the &lt;i&gt;entire GOP&lt;/i&gt;&#039;s policy on gay marriage, all millions of us, all of the thousands of elected Republican officials, because of the actions of &lt;i&gt;two&lt;/i&gt; Minnesota and &lt;i&gt;one&lt;/i&gt; national Republicans, let&#039;s hold you, Andy, to the standard you&#039;ve set for us (and, while we&#039;re on the subject, me):&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Three weeks ago, some of us caught Jeff Fecke committing a slew of, at the very least, ,journalistic gaffes:&lt;ul&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/index.php/index.php/2007/06/27/anonymous-sources-part-i-bad-manners/&quot;&gt;Part 1&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/index.php/index.php/2007/06/29/anonymous-sources-part-ii-say-what/&quot;&gt;Part 2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/?p=987&quot;&gt;Part 3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/?p=1000&quot;&gt;Someone else found something&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;He&#039;d seem to be, at the very least, guilty of extremely slipshod basic journalism, and possibly plagiarism.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;By &lt;i&gt;your own logic&lt;/i&gt;, Andy, the reader should regard all of you MNMon reporters with suspicion because of Fecke&#039;s trasgressions.&#160; The GOP wants the people to trust them on social policy; the Monitor wants people to trust them on news.&#160; The only real difference; about .0001% of Republicans have been accused of domestic abuse or caught with their phone numbers in a hooker&#039;s phone book, behavior that 99.999% of Republicans condemn.&#160; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;In the meantime, 16% of Minnesota Monitor reporters have been alleged to be slipshod reporters and/or plagiarists.&#160; And since the Minnesota Monitor, breaking its own &quot;Code of Ethics&quot;, has neither publcly acknowledge nor corrected these &quot;mistakes&quot;, it implies that 100% of the Monitor approves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;So do you have different moral standards on different issues?&#160; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Or do you perhaps see where maybe the point of your article is logically void?&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>So Since Perfection Is The Standard&#8230;</strong> &#8230;you&#39;re set, Andy &#8211; because remember, you&#39;re impugning the <i>entire GOP</i>&#39;s policy on gay marriage, all millions of us, all of the thousands of elected Republican officials, because of the actions of <i>two</i> Minnesota and <i>one</i> national Republicans, let&#39;s hold you, Andy, to the standard you&#39;ve set for us (and, while we&#39;re on the subject, me):
<p>Three weeks ago, some of us caught Jeff Fecke committing a slew of, at the very least, ,journalistic gaffes:&lt;ul&gt;</p>
<p>&lt;li&gt;<a href="http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/index.php/index.php/2007/06/27/anonymous-sources-part-i-bad-manners/">Part 1</a>&lt;/li&gt;</p>
<p>&lt;li&gt;<a href="http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/index.php/index.php/2007/06/29/anonymous-sources-part-ii-say-what/">Part 2</a>&lt;/li&gt;</p>
<p>&lt;li&gt;<a href="http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/?p=987">Part 3</a>&lt;/li&gt;</p>
<p>&lt;li&gt;<a href="http://www.shotinthedark.info/wp/?p=1000">Someone else found something</a>.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;He&#39;d seem to be, at the very least, guilty of extremely slipshod basic journalism, and possibly plagiarism.</p>
<p>By <i>your own logic</i>, Andy, the reader should regard all of you MNMon reporters with suspicion because of Fecke&#39;s trasgressions.&nbsp; The GOP wants the people to trust them on social policy; the Monitor wants people to trust them on news.&nbsp; The only real difference; about .0001% of Republicans have been accused of domestic abuse or caught with their phone numbers in a hooker&#39;s phone book, behavior that 99.999% of Republicans condemn.&nbsp; </p>
<p>In the meantime, 16% of Minnesota Monitor reporters have been alleged to be slipshod reporters and/or plagiarists.&nbsp; And since the Minnesota Monitor, breaking its own &#8220;Code of Ethics&#8221;, has neither publcly acknowledge nor corrected these &#8220;mistakes&#8221;, it implies that 100% of the Monitor approves.</p>
<p>So do you have different moral standards on different issues?&nbsp; </p>
<p>Or do you perhaps see where maybe the point of your article is logically void?</p>
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		<title>By: ABCDdo you see what I see</title>
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		<dc:creator>ABCDdo you see what I see</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2007 21:06:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Even the blind squirrel....&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;b&gt;&quot;The DFL isn&#039;t campaigning on &quot;family values&quot;!&quot;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Never thought I&#039;d see the day when MiniMoni posted the pure, unvarnished truth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Left to the DFL and it&#039;s ilk, &quot;families&quot;that did not resemble a side show would find themselves on par with smoking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Even the blind squirrel&#8230;.</strong> <b>&#8220;The DFL isn&#39;t campaigning on &#8220;family values&#8221;!&#8221;</b><b>
<p>Never thought I&#39;d see the day when MiniMoni posted the pure, unvarnished truth.</p>
<p>Left to the DFL and it&#39;s ilk, &#8220;families&#8221;that did not resemble a side show would find themselves on par with smoking.</p>
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		<title>By: MBerg</title>
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		<dc:creator>MBerg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2007 16:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;At Any Rate...&lt;/strong&gt; ...I referred to &quot;the argument we NEED to have&quot; for a reason, Andy.&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Let&#039;s say you get your wish; your article fills people with such revulsion with Republican &quot;hypocrisy&quot; and perfidy that the Gay Marriage agenda sweeps to victory.&#160; Y&#039;all can enjoy the blessings of being henpecked, negated, and the joys of family court, child support, and loss of meaningful custody...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;...sorry.&#160; That took a &lt;strike&gt;realistic&lt;/strike&gt; ugly turn.&#160; Let me start over.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Say you get gay marriage.&#160; Congrats. You&#039;re peers, on exactly the same par as all the rest of us.&#160; You get to raise families of your own (as, in fact, y&#039;all already can...hmmm)...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;...which will be hamstrung, undercut, degraded and assaulted by the &lt;i&gt;DFL&lt;/i&gt; policies I mentioned above.&#160; Your values - whatever they are - as a parent will be actively squelched by &lt;i&gt;DFL&lt;/i&gt; policy.&#160; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Will that be of interest to&#160; y&#039;all, then?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Well, it&#039;s of interest - immediate, vital interest - to a lot of us right now, in ways that are a lot more immediate than all of the canoodling about gay marriage and three representatives&#039; human failings that you could possibly name.&#160; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Get back to us when you find it of interest.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>At Any Rate&#8230;</strong> &#8230;I referred to &#8220;the argument we NEED to have&#8221; for a reason, Andy.
<p>Let&#39;s say you get your wish; your article fills people with such revulsion with Republican &#8220;hypocrisy&#8221; and perfidy that the Gay Marriage agenda sweeps to victory.&nbsp; Y&#39;all can enjoy the blessings of being henpecked, negated, and the joys of family court, child support, and loss of meaningful custody&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;sorry.&nbsp; That took a &lt;strike&gt;realistic&lt;/strike&gt; ugly turn.&nbsp; Let me start over.</p>
<p>Say you get gay marriage.&nbsp; Congrats. You&#39;re peers, on exactly the same par as all the rest of us.&nbsp; You get to raise families of your own (as, in fact, y&#39;all already can&#8230;hmmm)&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;which will be hamstrung, undercut, degraded and assaulted by the <i>DFL</i> policies I mentioned above.&nbsp; Your values &#8211; whatever they are &#8211; as a parent will be actively squelched by <i>DFL</i> policy.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Will that be of interest to&nbsp; y&#39;all, then?</p>
<p>Well, it&#39;s of interest &#8211; immediate, vital interest &#8211; to a lot of us right now, in ways that are a lot more immediate than all of the canoodling about gay marriage and three representatives&#39; human failings that you could possibly name.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Get back to us when you find it of interest.</p>
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		<title>By: MBerg</title>
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		<dc:creator>MBerg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2007 16:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;And now, to be realistic&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;i&gt;Is that the very people who continually blame gay and lesbian folks for the disintegration of marriage and families are not leading by example.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Let&#039;s be accurate here, Andy.&#160; While you point to the whole GOP when you refer to &quot;the very people&quot;, what you really mean is...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt; All three of the individuals&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Three people.&#160; Three.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Leave aside that two of them were involved in divorce actions, which is an emotional environment where &lt;i&gt;most&lt;/i&gt; people do things, at one level or another, that they&#039;d never do under normal circumstances (and yes, I would know).&#160; Leave further aside that two of the cases involve &quot;domestic abuse&quot;, a crime whose &quot;he said/she said&quot; aspects are frighteningly escalated during divorce and for which men are generally considered guilty until proven innocent and, frequently, beyond (just ask Alan Fine - right, Eric Black?), which means a situation that is very personal, and intensely emotional and irrational.&#160; In other words, nothing like an intellectual debate about the policy basis of marriage as an institution.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Three cases of people acting not-perfect, under situations that almost anyone would have trouble dealing with, no matter what their political party, under any circumstances.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;And this, you say, invalidates the &lt;i&gt;whole party&#039;s&lt;/i&gt; stance on &quot;family values&quot; (a term I don&#039;t care for, by the way), to say nothing of the traditional definition of marriage in &lt;i&gt;every culture on earth&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;It seems a bit of a stretch. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;I&#039;m talking about: &quot;that we should be suspicious when politicians try to legislate rigid traditional standards on people&#039;s private romantic lives, because chances are, they won&#039;t be able to live up to the expectations they set for the rest of us.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Andy, while I accept that we may have differences about the issue gay marriage (again, I support civil unions), you make a huge leap, from &quot;three people who have problems under crappy circumstances&quot; to, in your words, &quot;chances are, they won&#039;t be able to live up to the expectations...&quot;.&#160; Really?&#160; You think the &lt;i&gt;vast&lt;/i&gt; majority of Republican legislators (and for that matter Democrats) don&#039;t live up to their own ideals? 00&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;I&#039;m talking about the rhetoric they are flinging. It has nothing to do with poo.&#160; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;It&#039;s a figure of speech, Andy.&#160; Leftybloggers see Republicans who screw up, and hop up and down like monkeys at the zoo, flinging poo and chattering like happy little lemurs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;And who doesn&#039;t like lemurs?&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>And now, to be realistic</strong> <i>Is that the very people who continually blame gay and lesbian folks for the disintegration of marriage and families are not leading by example.</i>
<p>Let&#39;s be accurate here, Andy.&nbsp; While you point to the whole GOP when you refer to &#8220;the very people&#8221;, what you really mean is&#8230;</p>
<p><i> All three of the individuals</i></p>
<p>Three people.&nbsp; Three.</p>
<p>Leave aside that two of them were involved in divorce actions, which is an emotional environment where <i>most</i> people do things, at one level or another, that they&#39;d never do under normal circumstances (and yes, I would know).&nbsp; Leave further aside that two of the cases involve &#8220;domestic abuse&#8221;, a crime whose &#8220;he said/she said&#8221; aspects are frighteningly escalated during divorce and for which men are generally considered guilty until proven innocent and, frequently, beyond (just ask Alan Fine &#8211; right, Eric Black?), which means a situation that is very personal, and intensely emotional and irrational.&nbsp; In other words, nothing like an intellectual debate about the policy basis of marriage as an institution.</p>
<p>Three cases of people acting not-perfect, under situations that almost anyone would have trouble dealing with, no matter what their political party, under any circumstances.</p>
<p>And this, you say, invalidates the <i>whole party&#39;s</i> stance on &#8220;family values&#8221; (a term I don&#39;t care for, by the way), to say nothing of the traditional definition of marriage in <i>every culture on earth</i>?</p>
<p>It seems a bit of a stretch. </p>
<p><i>I&#39;m talking about: &#8220;that we should be suspicious when politicians try to legislate rigid traditional standards on people&#39;s private romantic lives, because chances are, they won&#39;t be able to live up to the expectations they set for the rest of us.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Andy, while I accept that we may have differences about the issue gay marriage (again, I support civil unions), you make a huge leap, from &#8220;three people who have problems under crappy circumstances&#8221; to, in your words, &#8220;chances are, they won&#39;t be able to live up to the expectations&#8230;&#8221;.&nbsp; Really?&nbsp; You think the <i>vast</i> majority of Republican legislators (and for that matter Democrats) don&#39;t live up to their own ideals? 00</p>
<p><i>I&#39;m talking about the rhetoric they are flinging. It has nothing to do with poo.&nbsp; </i></p>
<p>It&#39;s a figure of speech, Andy.&nbsp; Leftybloggers see Republicans who screw up, and hop up and down like monkeys at the zoo, flinging poo and chattering like happy little lemurs.</p>
<p>And who doesn&#39;t like lemurs?</p>
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