
Eric Mohat
An Ohio family is suing its local high school after their son, 17-year-old Eric Mohat, took his own life. The family says that the school ignored Eric’s pleas for help as his fellow students ridiculed him with homophobic taunts even though he didn’t identify as gay. But they are not suing for money. Eric’s parents are suing to force the school to institute a comprehensive anti-bullying program, exactly the type of program that faces an upcoming vote in the Minnesota House and Senate.
“On the day Eric committed suicide, one of the students who had been harassing him said to Eric, in front of other students and, by information and belief, in front of defendant Horvath, ‘Why don’t you go home and shoot yourself? No one would miss you,’” said the court documents.
Thomas Horvath was Eric’s math teacher. “The defendants knew or should have known about this constant harassment,” the lawsuit claims. “Defendant Horvath knew about the harassment because most of the verbal harassment and some of the physical harassment took place in his classroom during a math class that he taught and because Eric complained to him about the harassment.”
HF1198 and SF971 would put Minnesota’s anti-bullying programs in line with the Minnesota Human Rights Act to include race, color, creed, religion, national origin, sex, marital status, disability, socioeconomic status, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, and age. Currently, 93 percent of schools do not have anti-bullying programs that include provisions for those categories, according to the Family Equality Council.
“In small towns, it can all depend on one teacher or a principal who makes it their mission” to make the school welcoming, Leigh Combs told the Minnesota Independent earlier this year. Combs is the LGBT Kids Abuse and Prevention coordinator at Minneapolis-based Family and Children’s Service.
Because the bill includes sexual orientation and gender identity, the Minnesota Family Council opposes it. “Frustration among parents, students and teachers will increase as they see indoctrination of homosexuality under the pretext of anti-bullying curriculum,” says the Council. “We’ve seen this escalate to bullying by school administrators of parents who object to the school’s undermining of parental values and authority.”
The group also says the bill will result in “indoctrination and intimidation of students and school officials who object to homosexuality.” The council’s number one argument against it is that it is “unnecessary.”
But to Andy Berlin, who faced bullying similar that experienced by Eric Mohat, the bill is crucial. “When I was in sixth grade, students began to tease and bully me, calling me homophobic names,” he told members of a Senate committee. “I began to skip school at least one day a week. … My grades were deeply affected. Instead of focusing on my school work, I focused on just getting through the day.”
Berlin said he talked to the assistant principal at the school. “He implied I’d made the choice to be a homosexual.” The harassment and lack of support from some school staff took its toll. “By the time I was 13, I was hospitalized due to the trauma I experienced.”
The bills have both had a second reading in both houses of the Legislature and could be voted on soon.













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Pingback posted April 9, 2009 @ 2:22 pm
[...] propos of the anti-bullying before the legislature (that comes up for a vote soon), an Ohio family is suing their son’s school district for failing to stop the homophobic bullying that led their 17-year-old to shoot himself in the head [...]
Pingback posted April 11, 2009 @ 12:42 am
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Pingback posted April 13, 2009 @ 6:30 am
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Comment posted April 13, 2009 @ 4:36 pm
You know what boggles my mind? The Minnesota Family Council OPPOSES the inclusion of orientation etc. in this bill.
You know why it boggles my mind? Because Eric Mohat WASN’T gay. So what these folks are really saying is that they’re okay with their precious straight children (assuming they are straight) being labeled “gay” by classmates and bullied to the point of suicide.
How dumb do you have to be to see that this legislation protects STRAIGHT KIDS AS WELL AS GAY KIDS?
So… when one of the members of this Council has a child (who, of course, must be straight—sarcasm) who gets labeled “gay,” and bullied and bashed and beaten and commits suicide… the parents are going to be “okey-dokey” with it, and feel like their child’s rights were protected?
Sheesh.
Comment posted April 15, 2009 @ 1:10 pm
This really isn’t about anti-gay bullying and abuse. It’s about stopping all bullying and abuse. The bullies used whatever came to hand or mouth – their hatred of gays. The principals and school district administrators didn’t protect either boy, just like they don’t protect most targets of bullying and abuse. That’s why we need laws to force principals to act and to protect them from countersuits by bullying parents of little terrorists.
Also notice that none of the teachers or the other kids stood up to the bullies. Shame.
We also can’t and shouldn’t count on schools to protect our children from hurt feelings all the time. We must help our children develop the inner grit and resilience to know how to protect themselves from verbal harassment as well as from physical abuse.
Disclosure: In addition to having six children, I’m a practical, pragmatic coach and consultant. I’ve written books of case studies, “Parenting Bully-Proof Kids” and “How to Stop Bullies in their Tracks.” Check out my website and blog at BulliesBeGone (http://BulliesBeGone.com).
Comment posted April 16, 2009 @ 4:38 am
The Minnesota “Family” Council doesn’t surprise me at all. They are simply a hate group fronting as a religious group. Apparently if you include the word “family” in your title you get attention, no matter how vile the message.
Pingback posted May 13, 2009 @ 4:18 pm
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