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New York legalizes gay marriage

By Sofia Resnick
Saturday, June 25, 2011 at 9:00 am

“I cannot deny a person, a human being, a worker … people across this state … the same rights I have with my wife,” said New York state Sen. Mark J. Grisanti (R-60th District) Friday before declaring the 33rd “yes” vote the New York Senate needed to pass the Marriage Equality Act.

“I’m not here as just a Catholic,” Grisanti told his colleagues on the Senate floor Friday night, five days past the state’s original legislative-session deadline. “I’m also here as an attorney … I cannot legally [argue] against same-sex marriage.”

With Grisanti’s vote, the final tally was 33-29. Four Republican state senators joined 29 Democrats in their affirmative voting.

Thirty days after Gov. Andrew Cuomo signs the bill — which he promised to do Friday night, speaking at a press conference — all individuals of appropriate age and legal status will be able to marry in New York, regardless of their sexual orientation.

“At the end of the day, none of this would have mattered if you didn’t have people of courage and principle [in the legislature],” said Cuomo in praise of lawmakers who voted in favor of the bill. ”I don’t see any legal threat to it.”

New York is the most populous state to legalize gay marriage, joining Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont and New Hampshire.  And tonight, gay rights organizations throughout the country, particularly those celebrating Pride in the Big Apple this weekend, are rejoicing.

“The hopes and dreams of millions just came true: Marriage equality is about to become the law of the land in New York,” said Human Rights Campaign president Joe Solmonese in a press statement released late Friday.

“Thanks to the passionate leadership of Governor Cuomo, long-standing support from Assembly Speaker Silver, Assemblymember O’Donnell and his Assembly colleagues, thoughtful leadership from Majority Leader Skelos, strong support from Democratic Leader Sampson, Senator Duane and the vast majority of the Democratic conference, as well as the courageous votes of Republican Senators Alesi, Grisanti, McDonald, and Saland, New York will once again be a leader in the struggle for equality,” said Stefan Friedman, of New Yorkers United for Marriage.

“This vote affirms our common humanity,” said Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, in a press statement. “It means same-sex couples will no longer have to cross state lines to marry. It means New York lives up to its reputation as a national leader. It honors New York’s unique history as being the place where the modern gay rights movement sprang to life 42 years ago this month at the Stonewall Inn in New York City — a place where lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people stood up and fought back for their dignity and rightful place in society. This vote honors the spirit of all those who refused to settle for second-class status.”

However, some gay-rights advocates are facing this news on the defensive.

“Let us be clear, though — marriage is not the “end all, be all” of the movement for LGBT civil rights,” wrote GetEQUAL director Robin McGehee in a statement (emphasis from original text). “While we’re thrilled that marriage is now on the books in New York, we’re pained that the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA) has been shoved to the side by the Republican state legislature despite broad public support. … Today, we’re celebrating Pride with a bit more dignity and a bit more equality — but tomorrow, we have more work to do.”

After pledging at least $500,000 in May to help defeat New York’s same-sex marriage bill, the National Organization for Marriage has accused the GOP of betrayal.

At 10:05 p.m., a NOM staff member posted on its blog:

“Sen. [Stephen] Saland, who told voters he opposed SSM, is now saying he will vote for gay marriage. … We will redouble our efforts. This is not yet a done deal, despite massive GOP betrayal.”

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Comments

22 Comments

Carl
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 10:25 am

Justice is served in New York as Minnesotans consider a backslide to the dark ages. We live in interesting times. Good work New Yorkers!

Praise Jebus, God hates progress, Amen.


Wendy Leigh
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 11:07 am

Well done New York. Wake up Minnesota. The Vatican and the Mormon Church will swoop in here trying to set public policy. Lets send them packing too.


Eric
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 11:08 am

How extraordinarily moving to see the looks on people’s faces last night in various pictures posted to the web.

The light and joy in people’s eyes was the surge of the human spirit as it witnessed one of history’s rare victories of equality and inclusion.

Just think of the burden of the ages now cast off, at least legally and symbolically and if not some degree in fact–all the discrimination and violence, all the individual nights of loneliness in a hostile world, the very suppression of love! And now a door into a better world has opened wider.

Thank you New York.

Now, let’s get back to work in Minnesota.


Ron
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 12:13 pm

Rest assured that the righties, fundies, and other regressives will be out in force to try to turn back the clock and retreat to the perceived emotional security of a bygone era. Here in Minnesota, we have an opportunity in 2012 to vote down the proposed anti-gay marriage constitutional amendment that the republicans (and their funders/masters) just had to have to ensure the “sanctity” of marriage. Let’s not let the dark side win, folks–stand up for equality and justice for all citizens. It’s time to move forward and embrace a larger, more inclusive vision of the future.

Every adult should be entitled to marry the person they love, regardless of that person’s sex. Bravo, New York! May the people of Minnesota choose to be as progressive as your state has decided to be.


Jeff Wilfahrt
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 12:42 pm

Let us in Minnesota follow the beacon to the east.

Jeff Wilfahrt, Rosemount, MN


Katie B.
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 1:40 pm

Let’s stop this attempt to move us backward, so we can start moving forward.


Kevin
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 3:09 pm

Good job New York!

“the National Organization for Marriage has accused the GOP of betrayal.”

So what’s next for these radicals? Maybe a contract taken out on those who betrayed them? I wouldn’t put it past them.


Joe
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 4:28 pm

This was truly historic night. For the first time ever, a Republican-led legislature voted to positively legalize same sex marriage, doubling the number of people in this country who have marriage equality! Truly, if marriage equality can make it there, it can make it anywhere!


John I
Comment posted June 25, 2011 @ 8:06 pm

A glimmer of hope has sprung up for Americans. Maybe we can take this glimmer and turn it into a guiding light for all of us!


Chapter&Verse
Comment posted June 26, 2011 @ 11:18 pm

…and the late, great, HG has gone dark. RIP, HG.


rextrek
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 8:09 am

HG is on his way to Iowa to marry his secret Boyfriend.


HG
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 9:38 am

Good morning. Congratulations on your 6th state victory.

Good to see I’m on your minds.


HG
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 10:21 am

Marriage is no stranger to nuance. Subtle distintinctions have been added to it throughout history, but none of them have survived all of history like the basic meaning and purpose of marriage has. Same sex marriages is just another nuance brought on by a wrong understanding of liberty and equality. I expect SCOTUS will clear that up when prop 8 gets there. If no, history will see to it.


Chapter&Verse
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 11:05 am

Dream on, HG, if you think SCOTUS has your back on this one.


Joe
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 11:11 am

HG,

In Zablocki v. Redhail, Wisconsin attempted to limit marriage licenses by statute from parents who were behind on their child support payments. Even in this case, where the case clearly had an interest in preventing “dead-beat” parents from creating more children that could become a burden to the state, the Supreme Court reaffirmed that “marriage is a fundamental right to ALL individuals” and cannot be infringed.

That’s hardly a “subtle” nuance. They were emphatic that marriage is a civil right to ALL individuals, not just the straight ones.


HG
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 12:02 pm

That’s fine. Marriage is afforded to all individuals. Quit pretending otherwise. What NY did in essence, redefines marriage in NY.

Based on the new equality NY legislated, one could argue against the gender discrimination which classifications like “men” and “women” present. What about the hermorphadite? And the religious connotation associated with the words “man” and “woman” are numerous and by the left’s standard, sexist in the extreme. Check this out: in Genesis, God created “man” and made a helper for the “man” which he called “woman”. Woe Nelly! That’s some discriminatory language there. We’ve go to come up with new language that doesn’t discriminate.


Chapter&Verse
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 12:27 pm

HG, I thought your basis for reasoning was something other than religious. What does the book of Genesis have to do with this discussion?


Carl
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 1:04 pm

“Marriage is afforded to all individuals.” No amount of willful ignorance can make that statement true. He’s being provocative not debating. Certainly not Christ-like.

“What NY did in essence, redefines marriage in NY.” Absolutely, a definition that more and more Americans accept. Fearing this fundamentalists nation wide are scrambling to impose their religion through ridiculous constitutional amendments.

“(I)n Genesis, God created…” Mythology and fables are not stable foundations for public policy. I evoke my Constitutional right to have no religion imposed upon me by the state.

“We’ve go to come up with new language that doesn’t discriminate.” Finally some common ground. Let’s find language defining marriage that doesn’t discriminate. Or is that possible for the religious conservative?


HG
Comment posted June 27, 2011 @ 1:13 pm

I see you all would rather pretend I’m arguing for a religious view.

Childish.

You folks are the one deploring religious connotations of marriage. Why not deplore the religious connotations of “man” and “woman”?


Joe
Comment posted June 28, 2011 @ 1:26 am

HG,

The bible isn’t the law. If the bible and religion wishes to discriminate on the basis of gender, that’s fine. The law shouldn’t.


Carl
Comment posted June 28, 2011 @ 7:52 am

Marriage is defined by society. That society can expand its definition if it sees fit. Heritage, history and religion are but impediments to progress when sought and sorely needed.

Praise Jebus, God hates changes, Amen.


marie
Comment posted June 28, 2011 @ 4:44 pm

I see Religious rituals as just a nuance especially Christianity, since Same sex couples and marriage has been in society longer than Christianity.


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